"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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EFT (emotional freedom therapy) or TFT

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Has this been discussed on this site much? i've tried doing a search but don't seem to find anything.
Its basicly tapping on the bodies acupressure points to release negative emotions. Its a pretty usefull tool. What are peoples views on this technique?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I stumbled across a few sites today searching for emotions. Emotions were consideered by the psychology community as a suicidal career choice until the early 80's when a group of scientists proved that emotions are the driving force for motivation. Desire and interest stem directly from emotions, and folow logic patterns...

The two primary emotions felt by humans(fear and joy) are apparent in most every discussion that people have...

Here's an excerpt from "the bristol lair"

How to cure yourself completely.


For full information on EFT, visit emofree.com. Read the testimonials and success stories. Sign up for the newsletter and download the free PDF. It may seem gay and New Age, but this **** really works.

In the Bristol Lair we've found EFT very successful in removing minor emotional blocks on approaching and other aspects of relating to women. This is mostly thanks to the work of Trancer, who works as a hypnotherapist.

The idea is that over the years we have developed various negative beliefs. Maybe these were installed after one interaction with a socially inept female, or maybe they were drilled into us by our parents or schoolfriends. Wherever they came from, they can usually be removed in just a few minutes with EFT.

Here are some example beliefs that can cause anxiety, you may have a few of your own:

She won't fancy me
She's with her friends
She has a boyfriend
The bouncers will throw me out
I'll look like a fool
I can't handle rejection
I'll get very nervous
I might succeed and have to deal with sex
From reading mASF you should know that these are demonstrably untrue or irrelevant. But even if you know that on a conscious level, they still may cause anxiety or nervousness. This is where EFT comes in.

You should become aware of what your particular sticking points are. In general they can be removed with a couple of EFT sessions, but you may find they return after a few weeks or months. That means there is another belief that is causing them to return, so work out what that is and use EFT on that as well. They will also return if you don't conquer the beliefs in the field as well, and provide yourself with experience that they are false.

Practice EFT on your own or with your wings before you go out. Even better, do some approaches, and then do some EFT in a quiet area of a bar and go right back out into the field to see if it has helped.

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I still think acupuncture is complete bullshism though
 

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Thats where i stumbled across it flippinfreak, they give you a link to the site where theres the ebook to read, its a bit long and really doesn't need to be, i read it all though. The thought field therapy is pretty similar, and easier to do, and it does work, but you've really got focus and feel the emotion before "tapping" it away on the points. The book "tapping the healer" within, is ment to be the first book on the subject, i've not read it, but its is used allot by Paul Mckenna in his self help shows. Suprised that this has never been brought up on this site before.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Who's Paul Mckenna?

Is he related to Morag?
 

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He's a British NLP'er/Hypnotist. And as far as I know... No, he's not related to Terrance.
 

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He's a british hypnotist, very closley related richard brandler (the inventor of NLP) which he has worked with often.
 

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