"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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EFT (emotional freedom therapy) or TFT

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Has this been discussed on this site much? i've tried doing a search but don't seem to find anything.
Its basicly tapping on the bodies acupressure points to release negative emotions. Its a pretty usefull tool. What are peoples views on this technique?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I stumbled across a few sites today searching for emotions. Emotions were consideered by the psychology community as a suicidal career choice until the early 80's when a group of scientists proved that emotions are the driving force for motivation. Desire and interest stem directly from emotions, and folow logic patterns...

The two primary emotions felt by humans(fear and joy) are apparent in most every discussion that people have...

Here's an excerpt from "the bristol lair"

How to cure yourself completely.


For full information on EFT, visit emofree.com. Read the testimonials and success stories. Sign up for the newsletter and download the free PDF. It may seem gay and New Age, but this **** really works.

In the Bristol Lair we've found EFT very successful in removing minor emotional blocks on approaching and other aspects of relating to women. This is mostly thanks to the work of Trancer, who works as a hypnotherapist.

The idea is that over the years we have developed various negative beliefs. Maybe these were installed after one interaction with a socially inept female, or maybe they were drilled into us by our parents or schoolfriends. Wherever they came from, they can usually be removed in just a few minutes with EFT.

Here are some example beliefs that can cause anxiety, you may have a few of your own:

She won't fancy me
She's with her friends
She has a boyfriend
The bouncers will throw me out
I'll look like a fool
I can't handle rejection
I'll get very nervous
I might succeed and have to deal with sex
From reading mASF you should know that these are demonstrably untrue or irrelevant. But even if you know that on a conscious level, they still may cause anxiety or nervousness. This is where EFT comes in.

You should become aware of what your particular sticking points are. In general they can be removed with a couple of EFT sessions, but you may find they return after a few weeks or months. That means there is another belief that is causing them to return, so work out what that is and use EFT on that as well. They will also return if you don't conquer the beliefs in the field as well, and provide yourself with experience that they are false.

Practice EFT on your own or with your wings before you go out. Even better, do some approaches, and then do some EFT in a quiet area of a bar and go right back out into the field to see if it has helped.

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I still think acupuncture is complete bullshism though
 

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Thats where i stumbled across it flippinfreak, they give you a link to the site where theres the ebook to read, its a bit long and really doesn't need to be, i read it all though. The thought field therapy is pretty similar, and easier to do, and it does work, but you've really got focus and feel the emotion before "tapping" it away on the points. The book "tapping the healer" within, is ment to be the first book on the subject, i've not read it, but its is used allot by Paul Mckenna in his self help shows. Suprised that this has never been brought up on this site before.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Who's Paul Mckenna?

Is he related to Morag?
 

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He's a British NLP'er/Hypnotist. And as far as I know... No, he's not related to Terrance.
 

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He's a british hypnotist, very closley related richard brandler (the inventor of NLP) which he has worked with often.
 

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