Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Effortless Purpose on Display

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One of the things that I like to do, it just fascinates me, is watching people in their element, doing their thing.

Within this fascination, I have come across several interesting characters that are just on their purpose and loving every second of it, I feel that this Effortless Purpose is a very big part of game, maybe the biggest since this is what occupies mind and thought outside of work and allows us to... Escape, if only briefly.

Effortless Purpose, to me, is most about being humble and objective... I like to watch these videos done by Steve MRE for example, because you can tell he just loves it

Another example of a guy just on his purpose and loving it: Featureman... This guy is like my spirit grandpa, he's so entertaining to watch:


How do you guys get psyched up about your purpose? Or Escape?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Steve has an iron stomach, his eaten food from the civil war even and somehow survived. Ironically it was a modern day chinese ration that gave him food poisoning
 

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Steve has an iron stomach, his eaten food from the civil war even and somehow survived. Ironically it was a modern day chinese ration that gave him food poisoning
Yeah I've watched most of his videos now, usually just for ambience.

Unfortunately eating old food has become trendy now
 
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