"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Effortless Purpose on Display

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One of the things that I like to do, it just fascinates me, is watching people in their element, doing their thing.

Within this fascination, I have come across several interesting characters that are just on their purpose and loving every second of it, I feel that this Effortless Purpose is a very big part of game, maybe the biggest since this is what occupies mind and thought outside of work and allows us to... Escape, if only briefly.

Effortless Purpose, to me, is most about being humble and objective... I like to watch these videos done by Steve MRE for example, because you can tell he just loves it

Another example of a guy just on his purpose and loving it: Featureman... This guy is like my spirit grandpa, he's so entertaining to watch:


How do you guys get psyched up about your purpose? Or Escape?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Steve has an iron stomach, his eaten food from the civil war even and somehow survived. Ironically it was a modern day chinese ration that gave him food poisoning
 

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Steve has an iron stomach, his eaten food from the civil war even and somehow survived. Ironically it was a modern day chinese ration that gave him food poisoning
Yeah I've watched most of his videos now, usually just for ambience.

Unfortunately eating old food has become trendy now
 
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