Effective method for a gloomy guy?

[superchristx]

First lemme introduce myself. I am a 21 year old virgin, I beat my meat 2x a day... when I'm really busy. I also smoke pot every day, this is how its been for two, three years. I've had a few girlfriends and I ate their pussies, got head a few times but since I jack off so much I had could never or never felt that I could get it up for them. I have never told anyone this.

I'm a very serious, gloomy guy. I'm tall and (prolly) handsome, I have deepset eyes and I know I can be very intimidating. Emotionally I am filled with bitterness and when I get the feeling a woman doesnt appreciate me I forget her. If she says some dumb **** I forget her. Sorry if I've typed too much, I have more to say.

I'm quitting weed beacuse I find it makes me complacent about a life that doesnt satisfy me, I've cashed out my business and put away my bowl and scale. I've also been lifting my barbell everytime I get the urge to get stoned. I'm serious this time I want to change, I fully intend to enroll in the next bootcamp.

I guess my question is, I dont want to change who I am. I could act different when meeting women, but that would just piss me off, that she didnt want me for who I really am. Is there a guide or a school of thought that would be good for guys with a naturally serious, gloomy demeanor? I know dark guys can pick up chicks I just have no idea how.

 

[defiancy]

try posting in thte discussion because it will receive more views and after all this is the tips section

 

[Dingus]

I don't think you have to change who you are or what you believe in to meet women. However, it wouldn't kill you to try smiling a little more would it? I used to be really gloomy back when I was in High School because I suffered from horrible depression. Eventually I became completely fed up with it and decided I would change the way I was viewing the world. I try to take everything with a grain of salt and not take things too seriously. I feel so much better doing this and peoples reaction to me have obviously improved. Except for a select few, most people want to be around people that feel good and aren't depressed and gloomy all the time. Yet through this process I haven't changed who I am or my beliefs.
It's really hard not be gloomy with all the horrible **** that is going on in the world right now.