"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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godjwood

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hey guys,

so i have never had any serious girlfriend and have never had constant sex, only short flings or one night stands.

recently,i was dating a girl for about 4 months, and hooked up w/ her probably 30 times or so...

she was hot, and i was really nervous, my penis didnt work at all. at the end of the 4 months, i had only ejaculated 2ce.. she never had sex w/ me bc my penis didnt fully work, she would always give me head, most time no errection or very weak, and other times would not even ejaculate. all sorts of problems.

so since then, i have hooked up w/ about 5 more girls, and out of htem my penis worked once, when iw as ****faced.

this is becomming a serious issue. i mean, i never use a condom bc i can get an errectino w/out one, let alone with one. every time i am hooking up with a girl, i always wait to hear the "whats wrong?" and the girl to lose any remaining self esteem she has. i dont think i am nervous anymore, i just dont even care anymore. i just accept it. it is bad.

i have a girl comming here from across the world to visit me for couple weeks, and i actually feel something for this girl. do you think it will start to work naturally then? do you think i just dont feel comfortable with these random one night stands? i never really felt comfortable w/ that girl i dated cause i wasnt into her very much and never felt quite comfortable. last night when i hooked up i even took a few bong rips thinking that it would completely relax me so there was no way it woudlnt work. but it didnt.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ryannath

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Maybe you are homosexual deep down, and need to try a guy, maybe that will make you have an erection...just a thought.
 

GloriouslyInsane

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so since then, i have hooked up w/ about 5 more girls, and out of htem my penis worked once, when iw as ****faced.
Buy booze,drink before sex,problem solved.If you don't fancy the last solution try an urologist(if this is the right guy for the pen0r,i don't really know) and/or psychologist.
 

godjwood

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ryan, your funny. that was helpful. **** yourself.

to the rest, i appreciate the advice. however, i have seen a doctor, completely useless. and, when i drink it doenst work either. and i tried smoking theo ther night, thought that would be surefire, that didnt work either. and ive tried those herbal pill things, dont work either. anything else?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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NickSCFC2000

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Try joining a gym hittin the weights, you'll get alot more testostorone and feel a lot more...

well...

GRRRRRRR!!!!!! ;)
 
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If you do alot of ONS and casual flings then you are pressured to perform and this affects your psyche and then if you think too much then it gets worse!!

You need someone who you are comfortable with then the pressure will not be as strong to impress! Smoking and alcohol are not good for blood flow!
There is viagra - has side effects!
 
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