"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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godjwood

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hey guys,

so i have never had any serious girlfriend and have never had constant sex, only short flings or one night stands.

recently,i was dating a girl for about 4 months, and hooked up w/ her probably 30 times or so...

she was hot, and i was really nervous, my penis didnt work at all. at the end of the 4 months, i had only ejaculated 2ce.. she never had sex w/ me bc my penis didnt fully work, she would always give me head, most time no errection or very weak, and other times would not even ejaculate. all sorts of problems.

so since then, i have hooked up w/ about 5 more girls, and out of htem my penis worked once, when iw as ****faced.

this is becomming a serious issue. i mean, i never use a condom bc i can get an errectino w/out one, let alone with one. every time i am hooking up with a girl, i always wait to hear the "whats wrong?" and the girl to lose any remaining self esteem she has. i dont think i am nervous anymore, i just dont even care anymore. i just accept it. it is bad.

i have a girl comming here from across the world to visit me for couple weeks, and i actually feel something for this girl. do you think it will start to work naturally then? do you think i just dont feel comfortable with these random one night stands? i never really felt comfortable w/ that girl i dated cause i wasnt into her very much and never felt quite comfortable. last night when i hooked up i even took a few bong rips thinking that it would completely relax me so there was no way it woudlnt work. but it didnt.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Maybe you are homosexual deep down, and need to try a guy, maybe that will make you have an erection...just a thought.
 
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so since then, i have hooked up w/ about 5 more girls, and out of htem my penis worked once, when iw as ****faced.
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Buy booze,drink before sex,problem solved.If you don't fancy the last solution try an urologist(if this is the right guy for the pen0r,i don't really know) and/or psychologist.
 
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ryan, your funny. that was helpful. **** yourself.

to the rest, i appreciate the advice. however, i have seen a doctor, completely useless. and, when i drink it doenst work either. and i tried smoking theo ther night, thought that would be surefire, that didnt work either. and ive tried those herbal pill things, dont work either. anything else?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Try joining a gym hittin the weights, you'll get alot more testostorone and feel a lot more...

well...

GRRRRRRR!!!!!! ;)
 
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If you do alot of ONS and casual flings then you are pressured to perform and this affects your psyche and then if you think too much then it gets worse!!

You need someone who you are comfortable with then the pressure will not be as strong to impress! Smoking and alcohol are not good for blood flow!
There is viagra - has side effects!
 
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