"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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godjwood

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hey guys,

so i have never had any serious girlfriend and have never had constant sex, only short flings or one night stands.

recently,i was dating a girl for about 4 months, and hooked up w/ her probably 30 times or so...

she was hot, and i was really nervous, my penis didnt work at all. at the end of the 4 months, i had only ejaculated 2ce.. she never had sex w/ me bc my penis didnt fully work, she would always give me head, most time no errection or very weak, and other times would not even ejaculate. all sorts of problems.

so since then, i have hooked up w/ about 5 more girls, and out of htem my penis worked once, when iw as ****faced.

this is becomming a serious issue. i mean, i never use a condom bc i can get an errectino w/out one, let alone with one. every time i am hooking up with a girl, i always wait to hear the "whats wrong?" and the girl to lose any remaining self esteem she has. i dont think i am nervous anymore, i just dont even care anymore. i just accept it. it is bad.

i have a girl comming here from across the world to visit me for couple weeks, and i actually feel something for this girl. do you think it will start to work naturally then? do you think i just dont feel comfortable with these random one night stands? i never really felt comfortable w/ that girl i dated cause i wasnt into her very much and never felt quite comfortable. last night when i hooked up i even took a few bong rips thinking that it would completely relax me so there was no way it woudlnt work. but it didnt.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ryannath

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Maybe you are homosexual deep down, and need to try a guy, maybe that will make you have an erection...just a thought.
 

GloriouslyInsane

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so since then, i have hooked up w/ about 5 more girls, and out of htem my penis worked once, when iw as ****faced.
Buy booze,drink before sex,problem solved.If you don't fancy the last solution try an urologist(if this is the right guy for the pen0r,i don't really know) and/or psychologist.
 

godjwood

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ryan, your funny. that was helpful. **** yourself.

to the rest, i appreciate the advice. however, i have seen a doctor, completely useless. and, when i drink it doenst work either. and i tried smoking theo ther night, thought that would be surefire, that didnt work either. and ive tried those herbal pill things, dont work either. anything else?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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NickSCFC2000

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Try joining a gym hittin the weights, you'll get alot more testostorone and feel a lot more...

well...

GRRRRRRR!!!!!! ;)
 
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If you do alot of ONS and casual flings then you are pressured to perform and this affects your psyche and then if you think too much then it gets worse!!

You need someone who you are comfortable with then the pressure will not be as strong to impress! Smoking and alcohol are not good for blood flow!
There is viagra - has side effects!
 
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