"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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**** i thought i'd learnt so much here and today some girl totally caught me off guard:down:

Watin for my bus with a friend today and another bus pulls in some girl bangs on the window and starts mouthing something in our direction....At first we werent sure if she was talkin to us...but then i made out she wanted my number

:rolleyes: never had a girl ask for MY number so it threw me a bit and with a bus load of ppl staring right at me...i suddenly felt nervous....i just start laughing ( what a ****) and she give me the puppy dog eyes and the bus drives away while she blows me some kisses with a sad face.....i dnt how i wud of give her it without lookin like a **** anyway but **** she was easily a HB8........


what to do if shes on that bus tomorrow while im waiting for mine?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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are you serious? get her number....you didnt **** up at all
 

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yer but bear in mind the time limit i have is only however many ppl get on the bus before it drives away.....how am i supposed to get hers or her get mine in that time?
 

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get on the bus for a sec and ask her infront of everyone... shows confidence and disregard for other peoples time... def makes you a winner.. dont forget to tell the driver to wait for a sec
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by steroidsrule
get on the bus for a sec and ask her infront of everyone... shows confidence and disregard for other peoples time... def makes you a winner.. dont forget to tell the driver to wait for a sec
sounds good...i'll do it

hard works done right? i already know she likes the look of me....so lets just hopes shes on the ****in bus!
 
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