"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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**** i thought i'd learnt so much here and today some girl totally caught me off guard:down:

Watin for my bus with a friend today and another bus pulls in some girl bangs on the window and starts mouthing something in our direction....At first we werent sure if she was talkin to us...but then i made out she wanted my number

:rolleyes: never had a girl ask for MY number so it threw me a bit and with a bus load of ppl staring right at me...i suddenly felt nervous....i just start laughing ( what a ****) and she give me the puppy dog eyes and the bus drives away while she blows me some kisses with a sad face.....i dnt how i wud of give her it without lookin like a **** anyway but **** she was easily a HB8........


what to do if shes on that bus tomorrow while im waiting for mine?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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are you serious? get her number....you didnt **** up at all
 

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yer but bear in mind the time limit i have is only however many ppl get on the bus before it drives away.....how am i supposed to get hers or her get mine in that time?
 

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get on the bus for a sec and ask her infront of everyone... shows confidence and disregard for other peoples time... def makes you a winner.. dont forget to tell the driver to wait for a sec
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by steroidsrule
get on the bus for a sec and ask her infront of everyone... shows confidence and disregard for other peoples time... def makes you a winner.. dont forget to tell the driver to wait for a sec
sounds good...i'll do it

hard works done right? i already know she likes the look of me....so lets just hopes shes on the ****in bus!
 
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