"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Eczema (or however you spell it)

arutha

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Anyone got any simple tips on how to get rid of it? Preferably not with products designed to do so since it is on my eyelids so any of that stuff is too dangerous to use so close to the eyes. Maybe a diet change of a certain drink or vitamin or something? I don't know..

I've been throwing water on it as often as possible for a while and it seems to have cleared up pretty well (and about time, its been there for f***in years) but it is still slightly noticeable when I look really close and occasionally it has bad days.

Doctors just said I'd grow out of it, one said when I was 27 or something odd like that, stuff that for a joke.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Gus

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I have it all over my body, so here's some tips to keep it at bay:

Don't take hot showers, they'll make it break out BAD (lukewarm showers are okay, as long as you don't sweat and it's not too steamy).

Go to the doctor and get this stuff called Elidel. Works like a dream. It won't get in your eye if you just put a thin film on (or put it at the very top of your eyelid and then look up and it'll get a very thin layer on the rest of your lid).

Don't scratch it, it makes it a LOT WORSE.
 

arutha

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Someone else suggested cooler showers to me, I never quite saw the logic though. Do you know why?

I tried for a while and didn't really notice much except that I was getting bloody cold, so I'm back to having steaming hot showers. Oh well, splashing cold water on my face as often as possible has seemed to help.

Yeah thanks, scratching would iritate it..
 

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they say that temperature extremes in water can cause skin irritation.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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