canadianmetalhead
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Whats the deal? are we headed towards total collapse? will china take over everything? and if so, what the hell can we do about it (if anything)?
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Well, There's really nothing you can do about it, but at least your government is doing all they can by invading innocent countries such as Iraq to steal their oil, building military bases in different parts of the world etcetera. In the coming years we are going to see fuel shortages everywhere,canadianmetalhead said:Whats the deal? are we headed towards total collapse? will china take over everything? and if so, what the hell can we do about it (if anything)?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
That's because Clinton cut the military in half. Not a great trade-off.HandyAndy said:Ive always wondered this, can someone answer it for me?
I asked my parents how the economy and America in general was when Bill Clinton was in office, they said it was great.
Now if Hilary Clinton gets elected, couldnt she just ask her husband for advice? The U.S. was a lot better when clinton was around anyway.
leftForDeadPhoenix said:Our economy actually grew a little this last quarter, so no recession. We still have a fairly free market, so we are ok for now. Socialism and taxes kill business. Both Republicans and Democrats are moving more toward full-blown socialism, which is cause to worry.
Presidents have very little effect on the economy, btw.
How about telling the truth? Irag is getting rich selling their own oil while the American taxpayers are paying billions to run their country.gösta berling said:Well, There's really nothing you can do about it, but at least your government is doing all they can by invading innocent countries such as Iraq to steal their oil,
Yeah I wished foreigners would fund their own militaries too. You think the average American likes paying for most of the world's defense and getting involved and dying in foreign countries conflicts?building military bases in different parts of the world etcetera.
And you know who's to blame for this? There's not a current fuel shortage, it's been created by people with their own interests. Oil producing countries, enviromentalist, etc.In the coming years we are going to see fuel shortages everywhere,
sky high food prices, and so on. But it will be a lot worse for poor countries.
There we will probably see hunger catastrophies. The more I read about this
stuff, the more depressed I get. We are now entering into a new more darwinistic era for humanity.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Why are people so worried/ paranoid? Reading most replies, it doesn't sound like most people even have much of a grasp on how our national and international economies work...yet they are scared to death of non existent countries who want to kill us.SmoothTalker said:I really have to worry about the long term future of Canada. As resources become scarce, we look more and more attractive. Vast fresh water resources, minerals, oil, lumber, space, etc.
And only 30 million people here and a military that wouldn't last a week in a serious attack.
Hopefully we can form some sort of peaceful union before we get taken over outright.
Yeah we'll just annex Canada like Nazi Germany did AustriaSmoothTalker said:Lol Synergy, I'm not talking about the 'axis of evil' or whatever, I'm talking about the huge, powerful definitely existant country with which we share the worlds longest unguarded border.
I also have some understanding of how economies work, and I know for the time being the US will be happy enough just buying our resources
But I also know how countries act when desperate or in a state of war.
IF there was a serious crisis that required secure access to resources such as oil or fresh water, ie major war or drought, etc I wouldn't be too shocked if the US decided what's ours is theirs. Probably not an outright invasion, but some HEAVY arm twisting behind closed doors, that's for sure.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I thought you were talking about america, not Canada. Thats why I edited out everything I said. In the context I was thinking, I can't see anyone wanting to wage a land war vs america...except maybe the red army.SmoothTalker said:Lol Synergy, I'm not talking about the 'axis of evil' or whatever, I'm talking about the huge, powerful definitely existant country with which we share the worlds longest unguarded border.
I also have some understanding of how economies work, and I know for the time being the US will be happy enough just buying our resources
But I also know how countries act when desperate or in a state of war.
IF there was a serious crisis that required secure access to resources such as oil or fresh water, ie major war or drought, etc I wouldn't be too shocked if the US decided what's ours is theirs. Probably not an outright invasion, but some HEAVY arm twisting behind closed doors, that's for sure.
Dude, do the research. The North American Union is already becoming a reality without the knowledge or consent of the American people. Bush met with the leaders of Canada and Mexico 3 years ago and signed an agreement that would further Nafta in preparation for the NAU.ketostix said:Yeah we'll just annex Canada like Nazi Germany did Austria. Or maybe if things get too bad here will be like mexicans crossing the border. But seriously, from the what you hear here Canada is so liberal and socialist now most Americans don't want to be entangled in a N. American union.
Kill Canada! From the South Park movie.Bible_Belt said:I read that Canada has even larger oil reserves than Iraq.
You Canadians had better be ready for some shock and awe, eh?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.