"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Economical ideas & presents for her.

Zero2

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Have anyone have any great ideas?

I remember there was this guy who posted he bought cookies, and decorated the cookies with cream inscriptions of his name and the girl, which worked like a charm.

Good creative and economical (i didnt wanna use cheap) ways of giving a memorable gifts anyone?

Maybe this is one of the areas Str8up & Jokerr would lose out in, hah, no offense, but jus going to prepare the gifts but yet have no idea what to do.. Especially when christmas is nearing.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Chrispy

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Card is a must; chocolate, a decent arrangement for flowers, something she had pointed out she wants/likes/needs (gift giving is more like a test of whether you were listening to her, and buying what she said she was looking for).

So on my end...I have a bit of an issue...

Do you think it's a good idea to set a budget/price range for each other? I gave a number but then she said it was very low. Now IMO gifts dollar amounts should not matter...so ducaro's idea is very good ;) ...my impression of this girl is a lot lower because she is setting a high price and equating the value of the relationship to the value of the dollar and "effort" spent. What do you think?
 

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how do we know what to tell you to make for her if we know nothing about her?
we need details...
 

Chrispy

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What do you need to know? Well, for starters we've been dating for a couple of months.
 

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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