"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Economical ideas & presents for her.

Zero2

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Have anyone have any great ideas?

I remember there was this guy who posted he bought cookies, and decorated the cookies with cream inscriptions of his name and the girl, which worked like a charm.

Good creative and economical (i didnt wanna use cheap) ways of giving a memorable gifts anyone?

Maybe this is one of the areas Str8up & Jokerr would lose out in, hah, no offense, but jus going to prepare the gifts but yet have no idea what to do.. Especially when christmas is nearing.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Chrispy

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Card is a must; chocolate, a decent arrangement for flowers, something she had pointed out she wants/likes/needs (gift giving is more like a test of whether you were listening to her, and buying what she said she was looking for).

So on my end...I have a bit of an issue...

Do you think it's a good idea to set a budget/price range for each other? I gave a number but then she said it was very low. Now IMO gifts dollar amounts should not matter...so ducaro's idea is very good ;) ...my impression of this girl is a lot lower because she is setting a high price and equating the value of the relationship to the value of the dollar and "effort" spent. What do you think?
 

penkitten

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how do we know what to tell you to make for her if we know nothing about her?
we need details...
 

Chrispy

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What do you need to know? Well, for starters we've been dating for a couple of months.
 

STR8UP

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A D!ck in a Box!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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