"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Eckhart Tolle webcasts at oprah.com

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That's right I said "oprah".

Ego is a big problem for a lot of us. I've gotten a lot from this guy's books. Power of Now and A New Earth.

These webcasts are long interviews, and Q/A with the big chick, with normal people asking questions. This is great stuff, in my opinion. All about how we perceive ourselves and that constant stream of thought that can torment us.

It's practical stuff.

Take it or leave it.

tolle webcasts
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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LOL

Alfred E. Neuman on pot.

Watch Dr Pauls mind OS instead.. Great stuff
 

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thanks for sharing.
 

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Not meant to be hating here :)

Just suggesting MindOS since its the same thing hes talking about but from a more scientific point o view.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm watching David D's Deep Inner Game at the moment and I'm liking Dr. Pauls stuff a lot. The thing is that what I've got from it so far is to build onto your ego (your 'boundary') while Eckhart Tolle's works tells us that we should seperate from it completely. I know Dr. Paul tells us we should practise observing ego but that isn't exactly like Echart Tolles inner stillness, or basically 'being in the moment'.

So I'm a little cofused at the moment because I like the work of both people and I don't know what to intergrate into my life to get what I want.
 
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