“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Eccentric contractions

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How important are these?

I know that they do more muscular damage than concentric contractions (which leads to muscular hypertrophy) but wouldn't it logically make sense that you can easily overtrain while doing extended eccentric contractions? You know...where you lower that bar to chest for 3 seconds slowly...

Are these recommended for ALL muscle groups? How beneficial and effective are they to larger (pectoralis, quadriceps, latissmus) compared to smaller (biceps, teres, triceps) muscle groups?

Do you do them?

To answer my own question, I do it when training large muscle groups since my goal is mass increase. I figure if I can get bigger chest/back then everything else will follow. But now I suspect that I need to be doing this for smaller muscles also.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Nobody?
 

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I haven't been lifting the big three for awhile. So these numbers are not my best right now.

Deadlift - 200 X 4
Bench - 155 x 3 (Pretty terrible, I know)
Squat - 195 x 4

If it makes any difference, this is all at 140 bodyweight.
 

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I wouldn't worry about time under tension or the eccentric portion of the lift. Just focus on lowering the bar as quickly as you can UNDER CONTROL (increases stretch reflex) and pressing/pulling it as fast as possible.

You need to get your numbers higher before you consider stuff like the above.

Good luck.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Thanks man.

Any advice for getting my bench numbers close to squats/deadlifts? If I understood correctly, all three should be very similar.

I have been doing dips, triceps pushdown, skull crushers, and flyes. I plan on start doing close grip bench at some point.

My major problem with bench is stabilizing that bar. I have very skinny and very long arms which puts me at both power and mechanical disadvantages. Build up forearms, maybe?
 
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