Eat monkey Sh*t

[Raven125]

Alright fellas, lately i've been having some trouble with the way i act. But before we get to that, i would like to say that i plan to contribute to this forum wholly, once it is possible. For the time being i'm quite busy and have alot of things going on.

So anyways, back to my problem. Lately i haven't had much enthusiasm about anything, well i've never really been that enthusiastic. Whenever i'm on the phone or internet, i have absolutly no problem coming up with witty comments, in fact, i'm extremely good. But when it's in person with girls i don't talk to much, i loose all my flow and have trouble cracking jokes, starting a good convo, or anything. The thing is, my confidence is fine, i believe in myself as an unstoppable sex-machine. The fact of the matter is, i come across and act alot differant in person with some girls than i do at other times. Everything's whack and i think it could be old habits coming back at me.

Anyone have any ideas to help me out?

 

[Da Game]

Sounds like you just need to get more comfortable with talking to girls in person. The reason you're witty online is that you don't feel stressed there - when you're in person, you feel more pressure (doesn't really make sense, but it happens). Just build up your comfort level with face to face conversation - basically, keep trying. The more you practice, the easier it will become.

 

[Evo]

boot camp will sure help

 

[Porky]

I don't think he can do boot camp. Maybe it's just me, but when I was thirteen girls didn't go around giving their numbers to strange guys. Follow? They're young enough to be paranoid about that, and lack the confidence they have when they get older.

You need to just practice talking to more people in person. Since I found this website I've dramatically cut down on the amount of time I spend online, and I've made tons of new friends and acquaintances.

 

[Dig the Funk]

If you really wanna take it gradually, it's also easier to become comfortable with people that aren't your direct peers: teachers, adults, pets, etc. You could flirt with your cat. Just a thought.

 

[aBAzLLnA]

You could also start flirting with your mom and dad! just a thought...

Dude, you're so young! I highly doubt that chicks (13? they still called chicks?), ok, girls, that age don't know jack**** about anything. But it doesn't mean you can't practice on them

~ivan

 

[Boricua_33015]

**** I knew lots of people at the age of 12 that were at least doing oral sex.....

 

[Drowning]

...Um...yeah...that scarred me for life. Thanks, Boricua.

 

[Cogent Ops.]

I have a friend who has sex for the first time at age 13. At the time I envied him, but now he has to live knowing that he had sex with a 13 year old girl.

 

[Boricua_33015]

I dunno why its such a big deal. Maybe its just Miami but Im ****ing serious about kids having oral sex at ages 12 to 13, that **** was common (I think it still is) around here. I am thankful that I didn't jump on the bandwagon.... but Im fvcking 17 and this is just plain ridiculous!