"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Easy kino, girls & consoles

Kourt

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Hey guys, I just thought I'd share an easy kino I came up with the other day.

I had one of my girl friends over at my place yesterday, and she'd played Halo before, so I said we should play Halo2 for a little while. Now she, like most girls, have the problem of getting used to linking together using the move pad and aim pad, so while she had her hands on the control I put mine on top of hers, showing her how to aim and move at the same time. Easy inconspicous kino. Enjoi
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ScrewIt

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Originally posted by Kourt
Hey guys, I just thought I'd share an easy kino I came up with the other day.

I had one of my girl friends over at my place yesterday, and she'd played Halo before, so I said we should play Halo2 for a little while. Now she, like most girls, have the problem of getting used to linking together using the move pad and aim pad, so while she had her hands on the control I put mine on top of hers, showing her how to aim and move at the same time. Easy inconspicous kino. Enjoi
well only if the girl likes to play games.
i think a lot of people use this on girls to show em who's man.
a common technique of kino, yet understated.

this can be applied in: (pool and Baseball are the best imo cause you can wrap your whole body around theirs.)
Pool
Baseball
painting
Hockey

and just about anything else you can think of that requires hands
 

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Re: Re: Easy kino, girls & consoles

Originally posted by ScrewIt

this can be applied in: (pool and Baseball are the best imo cause you can wrap your whole body around theirs.)
when it comes to wrapping your body around hers, nothing beats golf

mmmmm

and if they're wearing tight jeans for the golf lesson you are a happy man!
 
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