"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Easy catch = Loss of Interest

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So I started hitting up on this chick on facebook that I met at a friend's party a while back. We get together go on a few dates all goes well. I busted some kino, C+F, direct sexual innuendo with her and she ate it all up. The only problem she seems way too easy. Word is that she also may have a boyfriend, so I don't know what is up with this chick.

Long story short, because of this I've lost all interest (I was into her at first) and want to stay away. Even though I have no interest she could serve as a booty call, I suppose. However, since I've been starting to stay away she's started acting really clingy and irritating (won't stop calling, texting). So I'm a bit confuzzled here.

I guess I should skip the booty call and just stay away before things get out of hand. What do you guys think?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Same deal with me, im at the club last night and some HB9 pulls up presenting herself to me whilst we were both dancing, only too easy. Didn't wanna look like an easy grab, so I continued to pay no interest until she got the hint.
 
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MrGold said:
Same deal with me, im at the club last night and some HB9 pulls up presenting herself to me whilst we were both dancing, only too easy. Didn't wanna look like an easy grab, so I continued to pay no interest until she got the hint.
A HB9 came up to you in a club and you just ignored her till she went away?

That's some serious game you have there. She's probably thinking about you right now.
 

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yeah, what do you do when you have HB9s flying at you every night?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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No chance I would have had a #close though. A grind would have been the limit.
 

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No because I lost interest far before I got there (after 2 dates). It's also her behavior that kind of repels me I guess, not only the easiness. She's one of the clingy needy types.
 

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cyraid said:
No because I lost interest far before I got there (after 2 dates). It's also her behavior that kind of repels me I guess, not only the easiness. She's one of the clingy needy types.
She must not be hot or must be fat.
 

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BUMP. Okay, there are some updates. And no she is not fat and she is decently hot.

So I had come to the conclusion that I would just drop her and forget about it. That was UNTIL she outright offered me sex last night. The girl was showing me her tits and butt on webcam. lol. So now I'm seriously reconsidering this. I was talking to a friend and he said that if she was so easy for me to get, she must have been around which makes sense. I'm mostly concerned about STD safety soo ya...

Any advice?
 

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She might not be easy man
After a while u learn that if your seduction skills are good
It doesnt mean that shes easy just means u got skillllllssss LOL
Wear a condom
wrap that sh!t up tho fo real
Dont want to wake up wit your **** burining in the morning lol
go hit it!!
just dont expect a relationship
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm not expecting a relationship at all. Oh I forgot to add that I'm a virgin too.. She's not. I would DEFINITELY wear a condom.

Isn't there stuff you can catch even with a condom. Like crabs I dunno. Am I being overly paranoid here?
 
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