"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Easy catch = Loss of Interest

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So I started hitting up on this chick on facebook that I met at a friend's party a while back. We get together go on a few dates all goes well. I busted some kino, C+F, direct sexual innuendo with her and she ate it all up. The only problem she seems way too easy. Word is that she also may have a boyfriend, so I don't know what is up with this chick.

Long story short, because of this I've lost all interest (I was into her at first) and want to stay away. Even though I have no interest she could serve as a booty call, I suppose. However, since I've been starting to stay away she's started acting really clingy and irritating (won't stop calling, texting). So I'm a bit confuzzled here.

I guess I should skip the booty call and just stay away before things get out of hand. What do you guys think?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Same deal with me, im at the club last night and some HB9 pulls up presenting herself to me whilst we were both dancing, only too easy. Didn't wanna look like an easy grab, so I continued to pay no interest until she got the hint.
 
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MrGold said:
Same deal with me, im at the club last night and some HB9 pulls up presenting herself to me whilst we were both dancing, only too easy. Didn't wanna look like an easy grab, so I continued to pay no interest until she got the hint.
A HB9 came up to you in a club and you just ignored her till she went away?

That's some serious game you have there. She's probably thinking about you right now.
 

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yeah, what do you do when you have HB9s flying at you every night?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No chance I would have had a #close though. A grind would have been the limit.
 

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No because I lost interest far before I got there (after 2 dates). It's also her behavior that kind of repels me I guess, not only the easiness. She's one of the clingy needy types.
 

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cyraid said:
No because I lost interest far before I got there (after 2 dates). It's also her behavior that kind of repels me I guess, not only the easiness. She's one of the clingy needy types.
She must not be hot or must be fat.
 

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BUMP. Okay, there are some updates. And no she is not fat and she is decently hot.

So I had come to the conclusion that I would just drop her and forget about it. That was UNTIL she outright offered me sex last night. The girl was showing me her tits and butt on webcam. lol. So now I'm seriously reconsidering this. I was talking to a friend and he said that if she was so easy for me to get, she must have been around which makes sense. I'm mostly concerned about STD safety soo ya...

Any advice?
 

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She might not be easy man
After a while u learn that if your seduction skills are good
It doesnt mean that shes easy just means u got skillllllssss LOL
Wear a condom
wrap that sh!t up tho fo real
Dont want to wake up wit your **** burining in the morning lol
go hit it!!
just dont expect a relationship
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm not expecting a relationship at all. Oh I forgot to add that I'm a virgin too.. She's not. I would DEFINITELY wear a condom.

Isn't there stuff you can catch even with a condom. Like crabs I dunno. Am I being overly paranoid here?
 
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