"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wyldfire

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I've seen a lot of posts where people have been told to read the DJ Bible. Since this is a compilation of information important for the newer guys to see, perhaps it should have a link like the Chat room now has. That would make it much easier to find and more accessible to refer to from the forums.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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maknmovs

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i agree, every keeps on asking for this information, but there's not one spot to find it in, a link would be awesome

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Life is lost in dreaming, and dreaming is lost in becoming (Motto on the Hard Rock Cafe in Cancun, Mexico)

Ive failed over, and over, and over again in my life, and that is why i succeed..-Michael Jordan

"Success requires no explanations; Failure permits no alibis"

Square playaz get played, pimps get paid, macks persuade
 

Lorenzo

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Just put it in your signature like this:

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AIM: EnzoOOI
E-mail: [email protected]

The DJ Bible ~or~ The High School Don Juan Bible

“I can imagine, that right now you are feeling a bit like Alice, tumbling down the rabbit hole?…… Let me tell you why you’re here. You’re here because you know something. What you know you can’t explain. But you feel it. You’ve felt it your entire life, that there is something wrong with the world. You don’t know what it is. But its there, like a splinter in your mind, driving you mad. It is this feeling that has brought you to me.…… Unfortunately no one can be, told what the Matrix is. You have to see it for yourself.…… You take the red pill, you stay in wonderland, and I show you how deep the rabbit hole goes” - Laurence Fishburne
 

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I just found the invaluable DJ bible for the first time today. It should have a link right off the home page or forum page, saying "READ THIS BEFORE POSTING!" It would save a lot of rendundant questions.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Mr. Cadillac

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Yeah, buried halfway down in the tips section. Hell, I didn't even think to look in the tips. I guess I thought it would be in the archives instead. I just think that considering the number of times newbies like me are referred to it, the DJ bible ranks it's own link. Perhaps a FAQ for the newbies, listing the location of important things and a list of common acroynyms seen on the message boards would quell the storm of repetitive questions deluging the DJ forum.

(Well, "deluging" is perhaps a little strong, but D@MN it sounds powerful, doesn't it?)
 

trickynick

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I am pretty new and it took me a while to familiarize myself with the board enough to figure out what it is and how to get to it. I agree it should be accessable in a more obvious way.

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