How do you deal with the ones that reply back "lol I need to get to know you first, I just don't go to random strangers houses. you might be a creeper or a stalker." or "sorry, but we should meet somewhere first."Espi said:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Easiest thing ever (OKC Pickup)
- Thread starter nwgforlife
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
GS750
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Then meet them at a local Starbucks. Point is, you need to go for the face to face as soon as possible because they are constantly bombarded with emails. She's probably talking to at least 5 guys at once. That was my mistake with the last girl I was talking to, it took us over two weeks to get to meet because of our conflicting schedules. By the time we met in person I get the feeling the was seeing someone else. I'll never know for sure why she flaked after the first date, guess she wasn't feeling it. Live and learn. And spin plates.
HedoRick
Senior Don Juan
Agreed= okcupid is far superior to POF. So much so, that the same opener that gets limited response of POF gets lots of responses on okcupid. Of all online dating sites, match is still the best of the bunch. I am meeting 3 new women a week from these sites, although I mostly add on some women that I meet IRL.
I've said this many times, but use online only as a way to augment the women that you are meeting in real life. It should never be your main outlet by any means.
Take up salsa lessons even if you hate dancing. Learn to love it. Hit up salsa night at the club. You'll be meeting 9's and 10's in no time...
I've said this many times, but use online only as a way to augment the women that you are meeting in real life. It should never be your main outlet by any means.
Take up salsa lessons even if you hate dancing. Learn to love it. Hit up salsa night at the club. You'll be meeting 9's and 10's in no time...
GS750 said:
Actually as with most girls i have dabbled in the land of women. I'm actually dating someone in this thread, whom i met online.
Point is, be respectful. Everything you post on here is out there for the whole world to see, and you never know when your girlfriend might do a little internet research.
All I'm trying to tell you is, if you really want women to dig you, you won't find the answer from the guys posting on this message board. Women will be into you if you're honest.