How do you deal with the ones that reply back "lol I need to get to know you first, I just don't go to random strangers houses. you might be a creeper or a stalker." or "sorry, but we should meet somewhere first."Espi said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Easiest thing ever (OKC Pickup)
- Thread starter nwgforlife
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
GS750
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Then meet them at a local Starbucks. Point is, you need to go for the face to face as soon as possible because they are constantly bombarded with emails. She's probably talking to at least 5 guys at once. That was my mistake with the last girl I was talking to, it took us over two weeks to get to meet because of our conflicting schedules. By the time we met in person I get the feeling the was seeing someone else. I'll never know for sure why she flaked after the first date, guess she wasn't feeling it. Live and learn. And spin plates.
HedoRick
Senior Don Juan
Agreed= okcupid is far superior to POF. So much so, that the same opener that gets limited response of POF gets lots of responses on okcupid. Of all online dating sites, match is still the best of the bunch. I am meeting 3 new women a week from these sites, although I mostly add on some women that I meet IRL.
I've said this many times, but use online only as a way to augment the women that you are meeting in real life. It should never be your main outlet by any means.
Take up salsa lessons even if you hate dancing. Learn to love it. Hit up salsa night at the club. You'll be meeting 9's and 10's in no time...
I've said this many times, but use online only as a way to augment the women that you are meeting in real life. It should never be your main outlet by any means.
Take up salsa lessons even if you hate dancing. Learn to love it. Hit up salsa night at the club. You'll be meeting 9's and 10's in no time...
GS750 said:
Actually as with most girls i have dabbled in the land of women. I'm actually dating someone in this thread, whom i met online.
Point is, be respectful. Everything you post on here is out there for the whole world to see, and you never know when your girlfriend might do a little internet research.
All I'm trying to tell you is, if you really want women to dig you, you won't find the answer from the guys posting on this message board. Women will be into you if you're honest.