How do you deal with the ones that reply back "lol I need to get to know you first, I just don't go to random strangers houses. you might be a creeper or a stalker." or "sorry, but we should meet somewhere first."Espi said:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Easiest thing ever (OKC Pickup)
- Thread starter nwgforlife
- Start date
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
GS750
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Then meet them at a local Starbucks. Point is, you need to go for the face to face as soon as possible because they are constantly bombarded with emails. She's probably talking to at least 5 guys at once. That was my mistake with the last girl I was talking to, it took us over two weeks to get to meet because of our conflicting schedules. By the time we met in person I get the feeling the was seeing someone else. I'll never know for sure why she flaked after the first date, guess she wasn't feeling it. Live and learn. And spin plates.
HedoRick
Senior Don Juan
Agreed= okcupid is far superior to POF. So much so, that the same opener that gets limited response of POF gets lots of responses on okcupid. Of all online dating sites, match is still the best of the bunch. I am meeting 3 new women a week from these sites, although I mostly add on some women that I meet IRL.
I've said this many times, but use online only as a way to augment the women that you are meeting in real life. It should never be your main outlet by any means.
Take up salsa lessons even if you hate dancing. Learn to love it. Hit up salsa night at the club. You'll be meeting 9's and 10's in no time...
I've said this many times, but use online only as a way to augment the women that you are meeting in real life. It should never be your main outlet by any means.
Take up salsa lessons even if you hate dancing. Learn to love it. Hit up salsa night at the club. You'll be meeting 9's and 10's in no time...
GS750 said:
Actually as with most girls i have dabbled in the land of women. I'm actually dating someone in this thread, whom i met online.
Point is, be respectful. Everything you post on here is out there for the whole world to see, and you never know when your girlfriend might do a little internet research.
All I'm trying to tell you is, if you really want women to dig you, you won't find the answer from the guys posting on this message board. Women will be into you if you're honest.