"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Easier for me to talk to hot girls

Crissco

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Ive been thinking about this lately. I dont know why but I connect alot easier with hotter girls then semi-hot.cute girls. Maybe its because there friendlier in general?

But its easier for me to keep a convo going with a hot girl then it is with a cute one, most of the cute ones i try to talk to have there ***** shield up.

Also no matter what girl I talk to, ive been getting "I dont trust you" with them pointing a finger at me, from all of them, even the hot ass stripper tonight(still got her number). Still not a good sign to me.

What am I doing wrong here and whys it easier me to start a conversation with a hot chick?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Mr. Suave

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Well there's a big myth that hot girls are *****es, but the reality is that the uglier girls are often the most unfriendly. All the hot girls I met were very nice people (with an inflated ego perhaps but I find that easy to deal with). It comes down to the individual but many ugly girls have countless flaws and issues with their personality.
 

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I've seen this many times. IME, it's mostly caused by the hot girls being so non-threatened by the guys approach, they have room to be nice.

Do you end up sleeping with these easily approachable hot girls? IF yes, then I would say don't worry about getting an acting award and just stick to your niche.

If no, I would I would suspect it's the reason I listed first.
 
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