"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Easier for me to talk to hot girls

Crissco

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Ive been thinking about this lately. I dont know why but I connect alot easier with hotter girls then semi-hot.cute girls. Maybe its because there friendlier in general?

But its easier for me to keep a convo going with a hot girl then it is with a cute one, most of the cute ones i try to talk to have there ***** shield up.

Also no matter what girl I talk to, ive been getting "I dont trust you" with them pointing a finger at me, from all of them, even the hot ass stripper tonight(still got her number). Still not a good sign to me.

What am I doing wrong here and whys it easier me to start a conversation with a hot chick?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Mr. Suave

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Well there's a big myth that hot girls are *****es, but the reality is that the uglier girls are often the most unfriendly. All the hot girls I met were very nice people (with an inflated ego perhaps but I find that easy to deal with). It comes down to the individual but many ugly girls have countless flaws and issues with their personality.
 

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I've seen this many times. IME, it's mostly caused by the hot girls being so non-threatened by the guys approach, they have room to be nice.

Do you end up sleeping with these easily approachable hot girls? IF yes, then I would say don't worry about getting an acting award and just stick to your niche.

If no, I would I would suspect it's the reason I listed first.
 
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