Crazy Asian
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pics plz?!krazyboy99 said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Earrings on guys
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
district_line
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I've had both my ears pierced since high school. I've been wearing the same 10g CBR's the whole time and women never have a problem. Women either love 'em or don't even notice 'em.
WaRpEd
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CHILDREN! Start acting like Don Juans.
Yea sure we can talk about why do and why don't but seriously, who the f*ck cares. If you did some basic reading, checked out other people who are succesful with women and have experienced with girls here and there, you would know that looks don't mean sh*t.
I mean, this dude got laid more in his life than everyone of us on this forum combined. Because he's a f*ckin rockstar. It's all about social proof.
My younger cousin is an average looking guy. He seriously isn't anything special if it comes to looks. But, because he is really smooth, girls litteraly fight over him. At 17, he already had a threesome! You think he cares about earrings? Are you f*cking kidding me? He seriously cares more about taking a sh*t than that nonsense, and so should you.
GOD! What's wrong with men these days? Women are suppost to care a whole lot about their appearance and spend a lot of time in front of a mirror. What's with all the trouble to try to look so good these days?
HEY LOOK I WEAR EARRINGS LOL!!!11 :cheer:
The most trouble I take if it comes to my looks is shaving my face (when i'm not too lazy), brushing my teeth and putting some wax in my hair with one single movement. I don't care enough to seriously spend time more at that. F*ck that bull****.
I mean, this dude got laid more in his life than everyone of us on this forum combined. Because he's a f*ckin rockstar. It's all about social proof.
My younger cousin is an average looking guy. He seriously isn't anything special if it comes to looks. But, because he is really smooth, girls litteraly fight over him. At 17, he already had a threesome! You think he cares about earrings? Are you f*cking kidding me? He seriously cares more about taking a sh*t than that nonsense, and so should you.
Necklaces are f*cking stupid also. Why the trouble? I'd rather spend my money on beer instead of a necklace. Infact if someone gave one to me i'd rather die in a car wreck then to wear it every day.
Oh ok. Because sports dudes have them you gotta have them too? You don't have your own life to worry about? Again, WHO CARES WHAT OTHERS DO. Sure with halloween i like to dress up like some famous person, but other then that, i don't give a flying f*ck about what any celebrity does. Neither should you.
GOD! What's wrong with men these days? Women are suppost to care a whole lot about their appearance and spend a lot of time in front of a mirror. What's with all the trouble to try to look so good these days?
HEY LOOK I WEAR EARRINGS LOL!!!11 :cheer:
The most trouble I take if it comes to my looks is shaving my face (when i'm not too lazy), brushing my teeth and putting some wax in my hair with one single movement. I don't care enough to seriously spend time more at that. F*ck that bull****.
HalfAddict
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I used to rock 8ga hoops. But I'm just naturally dirty ^_^
Not some queer fake diamond.
And if you're aiming to look like a rockstar or whatever do it.
Strech those ****ing lobes!
Not some queer fake diamond.
And if you're aiming to look like a rockstar or whatever do it.
Strech those ****ing lobes!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
I used the sports athletes as an example, because they are far from gay. I like how you try to minimize pretty much all a guy can do to look good other than put on make up.
I like how much effort you put into posting your opinion on how much you don't care what others do. Its kind of ironic.
I like how much effort you put into posting your opinion on how much you don't care what others do. Its kind of ironic.
im just about the most liberal person you'd ever meet but i think earrings look kind of gay.
having said that, i have hot pink streaks going through my hair at the moment, and i bet a lot more people would call that gay than earrings. do i give a sh!t? nope. so should anybody with earrings give a sh!t what i think? nope.
you definitely shouldn't do anything like that for chicks. going back to my hair again - do girls dig it? i dont know. if i was to guess id say the vast majority dont (even though im forever getting compliments on it). again, do i give a sh!t? nope. why the hell would i? its what i want to do and if they dont like it then they are perfectly welcome to date some loser who'll pander to their every whim.
having said that, i have hot pink streaks going through my hair at the moment, and i bet a lot more people would call that gay than earrings. do i give a sh!t? nope. so should anybody with earrings give a sh!t what i think? nope.
you definitely shouldn't do anything like that for chicks. going back to my hair again - do girls dig it? i dont know. if i was to guess id say the vast majority dont (even though im forever getting compliments on it). again, do i give a sh!t? nope. why the hell would i? its what i want to do and if they dont like it then they are perfectly welcome to date some loser who'll pander to their every whim.
Yookiwooki
Don Juan
I dont think the fact that it was an earring that made her interested -- it was the fact that it was something completley different from your other appearance.
People see you and judge you based on how you initally look, but, if after they have an idea of who you are, they notice something that goes against that stereotype... thats when they get curious -- thats what makes them interested
People see you and judge you based on how you initally look, but, if after they have an idea of who you are, they notice something that goes against that stereotype... thats when they get curious -- thats what makes them interested
this thread is making me want to get my ear pierced again and get a wood tight hoop. it had closed since I lost my earring on the pool and got lazy to put another one.
http://www.statenews.com/media/00/00/00/55/5578_2d10de96803114d3a4784f01785ecaf9.jpg
But I gotta be honest on this, when I decided to wear an earring it wasn't to pull any chicks off. Just liked to look at myself with one. If that is gay, well I ain't doing **** in this forum.
http://www.statenews.com/media/00/00/00/55/5578_2d10de96803114d3a4784f01785ecaf9.jpg
But I gotta be honest on this, when I decided to wear an earring it wasn't to pull any chicks off. Just liked to look at myself with one. If that is gay, well I ain't doing **** in this forum.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Lol at people arguing about whether or not earrings are gay. The people writing and reading these posts come from every kind of demographic both racially and culturally so of course there's going to be disagreements. It's like a goth telling a frat boy that polo shirts are gay, when the frat boy is laughing at the eye liner. Who gives a ****.
Consider it as an option and wear it if you think it enhances your look but recognize this: No one ever got laid just by putting on or taking off a fvcking earring.
Consider it as an option and wear it if you think it enhances your look but recognize this: No one ever got laid just by putting on or taking off a fvcking earring.
LostAndConfused
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Honestly, an earring CAN help. But ONLY for initial attraction purposes. If you don't have any verbal game to back your $hit up that thing is useless.
WaRpEd
Senior Don Juan
lol
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
SilverSonnet
Senior Don Juan
My important and wanted opinion on this is..
I respect people who wear earrings, hey it's their ears, and they probably look cool wearing them, who knows?
But me, I wouldn't wear them, I like to be as 'natural' as possible, if you catch my drift. I like to look professional, and I would probably look an idiot with one in.
I respect people who wear earrings, hey it's their ears, and they probably look cool wearing them, who knows?
But me, I wouldn't wear them, I like to be as 'natural' as possible, if you catch my drift. I like to look professional, and I would probably look an idiot with one in.
Faded Image
Senior Don Juan
I wear them, and I'm going to keep wearing them.
I got a hole in each for both of my sons.
I got a hole in each for both of my sons.
b.gregson89
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I have 2 gauge plugs, got em pieced around two weeks ago.
First of all, DONT do them for the ladies. Get them pierced cause you want them pierced, some people are into it, some aren't. I got mine pierced because it's just something I've wanted to do, for myself.
Now that doesn't mean the plugs haven't helped me with the ladies. I got a ton of compliments afterwards about how good they look, and just from walking around campus (college), I can see plenty of girls checking me out. They were before, but not, its much more obvious. It gravitates their eyes to my head which is better, easier to make eye contact and get the initial attraction going. And they've seemed to add contrast to my eyes, ie, making my eyes the focal point for girls to look at. They certainly aren't "gay" or "stupid" as some of these ignorant people seem to think.
First of all, DONT do them for the ladies. Get them pierced cause you want them pierced, some people are into it, some aren't. I got mine pierced because it's just something I've wanted to do, for myself.
Now that doesn't mean the plugs haven't helped me with the ladies. I got a ton of compliments afterwards about how good they look, and just from walking around campus (college), I can see plenty of girls checking me out. They were before, but not, its much more obvious. It gravitates their eyes to my head which is better, easier to make eye contact and get the initial attraction going. And they've seemed to add contrast to my eyes, ie, making my eyes the focal point for girls to look at. They certainly aren't "gay" or "stupid" as some of these ignorant people seem to think.