“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Early Sexual Issues...

A-Man2151

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I started dating my girlfriend a few months ago, and we just started having sex. We are 23, and she was a virgin. She was very apprehensive about starting a sexual relationship, but after she became more comfortable around me, decided she was ready. She would oftentimes be very self conscious and worry that she 'wouldn't be good at it', etc...but I kept reassuring her I wouldn't define our relationship by the first few times we had sex.

We are just about a 12 pack of condoms into the relationship now, and quite simply, sex does not feel good for her. She is a very tiny girl, and I would say I'm above average in size, and it is very painful for her. I keep telling her that it takes some time, especially since she was a virgin, but I feel like she is giving up, and her previous fears are coming true. To her credit, she is very persistent, and always wants to have sex, but is possibly getting frustrated that it's not getting better...which I don't know how to respond to.

I have had previous successful sexual relationships, so I am trying a bunch of different things to see what she likes, but I'm afraid she's getting into her mind that she's bad at sex, and it will never be good. She goes absolutely crazy when I go down on her, so it's not like she is incapable of being aroused, just apparently not through intercourse. Any suggestions on how I could keep her excited about doing it?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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TheBucketOfTruth

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Make sure you warm her up a lot before sex. By that I mean lots of foreplay and make sure everything down there is nice and wet. You can even use your own lube if things become a problem. It may be that you are not sexually compatible, but try just working with what you have now. The fact that she has apprehensions will only add to the problem, so just take things very slow at first and make sure she is a well-oiled machine before you start plowing away. Get her to talk about what works and what doesn't so you can get a better idea of how to give it to her.
 
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