"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

early mixed signals and ignore, pls advice djs

TheGambino

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 25, 2013
Messages
2,752
Reaction score
981
Location
Somewhere
Approached girl in club. HB8, responds: no not gonna do something with you to my opener i whispered.

Teased her sayin ooh your a dirty girl thinkin about that stuff immediatley.

She responds well and convo starts. Teased her several times had fun flirting. Told me her boyfriend was there too he was checking upon us.

Asked for her number coz it clicked very well but she refused, she said ask my bf if he says ok ill giv it too u, told her no lmao and left for a while dancing on other spots. got back to her and kino'ed her a lot , even kissed her neck and she let me, she had fun. Her boyfriend led her away twice and she gave me that 'omg -.-' look.

A friend of mine passed by and shout kiss too us! she told him no i cant my boyfriend is here..

the whole night she was looking at me flirting with me and arguin with her boyfriend.

In the end when she wanted to leave she stayed around and danced in front of me turned around and looked at me like sory i got to go.

she gave me her first and last name so I added her on facebook the next evening, she accepted.

FB messaged a day after hey how u doin

she saw the message 9 mins after ive sended my msg but didn't replie, ignore.

I know she has a bf, moral issue but I like her, and my gut tells me shes very interested too but whats the msg shes sending to me with ignoring my msg on facebook chat.

even tho id like to persue her in the future prob when she breaks up or so so is it best to ignore her know too?

btw: she lives in a town nearby i come there often, my friend lives 10mins from the cafe where she works
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

nismo-4

Moderator
Joined
Jan 31, 2005
Messages
4,438
Reaction score
1,142
Location
From New Orleans, Louisiana to Atlanta, Georgia!!!
Mixed signals means low interest. She's an attention wh0re. And women who are interested in you won't confuse you. Judge nismo's ruling.

Case closed. Exit the courtroom.
 

LorenzoVonM

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 18, 2013
Messages
191
Reaction score
16
Why do you keep posting about this same girl? People have already told you what she is. The repeated posts are symptomatic of your larger issues. Fix those first.
 

NewAndImproved

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 10, 2008
Messages
373
Reaction score
13
Nothing more than going out with her AFC provider boyfriend, being "aroused" by more alpha men but then going home with the provider. Same **** happened this weekend to me only the girl was married. Recognize it for what it is. It's not attention whoring unless you're duped by it. Use her flirting to warm up and get into "state". Have her introduce you to other women (either random women or women she's come with).
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Top