"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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early mixed signals and ignore, pls advice djs

TheGambino

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Approached girl in club. HB8, responds: no not gonna do something with you to my opener i whispered.

Teased her sayin ooh your a dirty girl thinkin about that stuff immediatley.

She responds well and convo starts. Teased her several times had fun flirting. Told me her boyfriend was there too he was checking upon us.

Asked for her number coz it clicked very well but she refused, she said ask my bf if he says ok ill giv it too u, told her no lmao and left for a while dancing on other spots. got back to her and kino'ed her a lot , even kissed her neck and she let me, she had fun. Her boyfriend led her away twice and she gave me that 'omg -.-' look.

A friend of mine passed by and shout kiss too us! she told him no i cant my boyfriend is here..

the whole night she was looking at me flirting with me and arguin with her boyfriend.

In the end when she wanted to leave she stayed around and danced in front of me turned around and looked at me like sory i got to go.

she gave me her first and last name so I added her on facebook the next evening, she accepted.

FB messaged a day after hey how u doin

she saw the message 9 mins after ive sended my msg but didn't replie, ignore.

I know she has a bf, moral issue but I like her, and my gut tells me shes very interested too but whats the msg shes sending to me with ignoring my msg on facebook chat.

even tho id like to persue her in the future prob when she breaks up or so so is it best to ignore her know too?

btw: she lives in a town nearby i come there often, my friend lives 10mins from the cafe where she works
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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nismo-4

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Mixed signals means low interest. She's an attention wh0re. And women who are interested in you won't confuse you. Judge nismo's ruling.

Case closed. Exit the courtroom.
 

LorenzoVonM

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Why do you keep posting about this same girl? People have already told you what she is. The repeated posts are symptomatic of your larger issues. Fix those first.
 

NewAndImproved

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Nothing more than going out with her AFC provider boyfriend, being "aroused" by more alpha men but then going home with the provider. Same **** happened this weekend to me only the girl was married. Recognize it for what it is. It's not attention whoring unless you're duped by it. Use her flirting to warm up and get into "state". Have her introduce you to other women (either random women or women she's come with).
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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