E-mail?

[ChocolateVanilla]

Hi everyone,

I'm a new poster on here, and I have a question about e-mailing. I met a girl and we didn't have the best rapport but I asked her for her # anyways and instead of giving me her number, she said she'd just e-mail me. I thought she wouldn't and was just trying to lay me off easy and I would never hear from her again. But she sent me a message just yesterday with some general greetings. So how should I approach from here? Most girls I meet just either give me their number, give me a fake one, or flat-out refuse, but I've never interacted with girls over e-mail.

 

[MrMike]

What I'd try to do is get her number through E-mail.

If she gives you her number, call her and set up a date.

If she refuses, ignore her. She's not interested in you, and you shouldn't be in her.

 

[lYlasTer]

If she didn't give you her phone number the first time it means the interest isn't strong enough. maybe talking online is her thing. I'd ask to see if she has a screen name or something, it can work almost as well as a phone number. I think there are actually some girls that don't like talking on the phone, maybe SN is the way to go.

 

[Crazy Asian]

i've tried e-mail once, but i've never actually done it. I know how to get the "a", but how to i get the circle around it?

 

[Last Man Standing]

If she lives with her parents then she doesn't want to give her number to 10 guys for obvious reasons -- so e-mail is more private! You can still game her but rapport is necessary -- after a few weeks ask to meet her for a function!

 

[ChocolateVanilla]

If she lives with her parents then she doesn't want to give her number to 10 guys for obvious reasons -- so e-mail is more private! You can still game her but rapport is necessary -- after a few weeks ask to meet her for a function!

So should I just ask to meet her with my next e-mail? I'd prefer to get some interaction with her personally. Maybe interest is there but not strong? SO should I just talk with over the internet for a while or go straight up for a meeting?

 

[Obsidian]

she may just be afraid of phones (don't know how many girls are actually like that, but I myself don't like calling people much). Email is so much easier to pace.

Just email her back once or twice and then ask her to meet you somewhere for lunch or coffee. After the date, get her #. (If she doesn't give it to you at that point, blow her off.)

If she actually contacted you, it takes very little effort to respond and try to set something up. The date is the important thing, not the #.

 

[typical]

Its 2007 guys, 5 year olds have cellphones now. Cut the crap say no to emails or msn and get the number.

 

[crackers444]

I can relate to this thread, I got the email of a girl in my class. I was hoping to develop more of a rapport with her, since I didn't know her that well. She however didn't email me back. She did have a cell # but was hesitant and shy to ask for it.

 

[typical]

You wouldn't hesitate to ask for the number of a old lost friend now would you ?? Same principle here there is no harm in asking for her number so don't be scared the worst thing that can happen is she chucks a mental and says no.

 

[ChocolateVanilla]

she may just be afraid of phones (don't know how many girls are actually like that, but I myself don't like calling people much). Email is so much easier to pace.

Just email her back once or twice and then ask her to meet you somewhere for lunch or coffee. After the date, get her #. (If she doesn't give it to you at that point, blow her off.)

If she actually contacted you, it takes very little effort to respond and try to set something up. The date is the important thing, not the #.

Well right now I guess I'll interpret it as somewhat interested but interest isn't strong enough. However, what if she never respond to my e-mail that I sent back at her? Does that usually mean my response was the problem or did I never have a chance in the first place? Girls should just say no if they're not interested and cut the e-mail and messenger stuff.