"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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MightyMate

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Okay situation is simple more or less and i prolly even know what to do. Just maybe somebody gives me some better hint than i thought of.
Long story, short. I know the girl since longer time, we seen each other just 2-3 times in life and didnt even really speak by then. But we did chat a lot some time ago online at some kind of 'myspace'.
Then i decided we should meet coz she dropped her bf, i dropped my gf etc.
So Sunday night i wrote to her we should meet this week.
Monday she replied - 'ok friday at 12.00'. I rewrote her that she can choose day but i need to choose hour since i work till 5 later and 12.00 is impossible.
She didnt reply to that at all.

So we are on wednesday now. What to do?
1. Write her date of meeting, place and hour right now
2. Do the same in the evening [so its already over 2 days of me not writing]
3. ?

And how should i write it. Just simple "I propose day,hour,place." or something else? Id rather skip any questions marks in the post aka no 'Is it ok?'.
Thanx!
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Andy_Dufresne

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YOU decide the time and place.

If she wants to change it or flake, make sure it fits into YOUR schedule and not vice versa.
 
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