"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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MightyMate

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Okay situation is simple more or less and i prolly even know what to do. Just maybe somebody gives me some better hint than i thought of.
Long story, short. I know the girl since longer time, we seen each other just 2-3 times in life and didnt even really speak by then. But we did chat a lot some time ago online at some kind of 'myspace'.
Then i decided we should meet coz she dropped her bf, i dropped my gf etc.
So Sunday night i wrote to her we should meet this week.
Monday she replied - 'ok friday at 12.00'. I rewrote her that she can choose day but i need to choose hour since i work till 5 later and 12.00 is impossible.
She didnt reply to that at all.

So we are on wednesday now. What to do?
1. Write her date of meeting, place and hour right now
2. Do the same in the evening [so its already over 2 days of me not writing]
3. ?

And how should i write it. Just simple "I propose day,hour,place." or something else? Id rather skip any questions marks in the post aka no 'Is it ok?'.
Thanx!
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Andy_Dufresne

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YOU decide the time and place.

If she wants to change it or flake, make sure it fits into YOUR schedule and not vice versa.
 
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