"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Got this girls e-mail address from the gym yesterday,but I can't read her writing!
I know one of the guys at the gym so he can sort it out!
Should I ask him to get her number as well?
I give her my moblie number but I think I wrote one of the numbers down wrong!

I was supposed to see her a month ago but never did because she is always busy!
I aked her what happened, she said she had not been to the gym since then.
I said to her did I play it too cool before - she said "yes" I think I came across as not wanting her enough!

I said to her,do you still want to go a for a drink,if you don't just let me,it's o.k if you don't.She said she still wanted to!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Easy, next time you see her talk to her. See how it feels. If all is well ask her out, tell her you were going to write an email but cant read her hand writing, tell her you both write similar but you have trouble understanding hers. Ask her what shes doing after gym.


The email you use anyway to get her number, and that you use to setup date. So why not do it directly and present her with an expected patters, urh, something different. Date after gym is different, but talk to her, you want to be flexible.


See it is to your advantage because now you have something to talk to her about.
 
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You're being a bit nervous. Do your best to calm down. The worst this would go is that you have to wait to catch her next time, that's not "devastating".

I wouldn't ask anyone else for her phone number, caz she'll wonder how you got it, it'd spook her. If someone got my number from a third party, I wouldn't like it.

At this point, I'd either ask the person you know at the gym to help you with the email, or just wait until you bump into her again.

In the long run, work on approaching more women, or running the DJ boot camp. It will help you to get over your fears, and just relax around women. That's attractive.
 
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Thomas94305 said:
You're being a bit nervous. Do your best to calm down. The worst this would go is that you have to wait to catch her next time, that's not "devastating".

I wouldn't ask anyone else for her phone number, caz she'll wonder how you got it, it'd spook her. If someone got my number from a third party, I wouldn't like it.

At this point, I'd either ask the person you know at the gym to help you with the email, or just wait until you bump into her again.

In the long run, work on approaching more women, or running the DJ boot camp. It will help you to get over your fears, and just relax around women. That's attractive.
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I got the right e-mail address now from my buddy luke :up:
 
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