Hey guys, today at youth group we went bowling and ate at some restaurant. While we were there i decided to text on my friend's (she's a girl) phone. i started randomly texting one of her friends and she seemed pretty interested. She sent me photos of herself and we flirted. I would give her a hb6.5. The thing is this girl goes to a private school (the school the girl at my church goes) and i've never met her in person. I kinda wanna hookup with this girl; do you guys have any advice on how i could go about this??? BTW i don't have texting on my phone but i got her number and she told me to call her anytime.
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E-flirting with girls i don't know........
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Call her, have a SHORT little conversation.....ask how she is, throw in some C&F, make her laugh a bit, and get the date. I'm sure you can take it from there 
Yeah, but i'm not so smooth on the phone. I'm better at texting too bad i don't have it anymore........ So you got any ideas on how i can get the convo started since i've never talked to her on the phone before? Do you guys have any jokes i could make to loosen her up?
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Her: Hello?
You: Hey, this is the man of your dreams calling.
Her: *Confusion*
You: Haha this is Jokerlsk, what's up? How have you been?
Her: Blah blah blah
You: Yeah, but I bet your life would be even more exciting if you could see me. I'm sure you agree
Her: Blah blah blah (hopefully a laugh)
You: Let's go (insert place here) on (insert day here)
Something like that. lol
You: Hey, this is the man of your dreams calling.
Her: *Confusion*
You: Haha this is Jokerlsk, what's up? How have you been?
Her: Blah blah blah
You: Yeah, but I bet your life would be even more exciting if you could see me. I'm sure you agree
Her: Blah blah blah (hopefully a laugh)
You: Let's go (insert place here) on (insert day here)
Something like that. lol
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Yeah, i know man. I don't even have texting on my phone, but since i've never met this chick before i can act/say whatever i want with no consequence. I heard she's a ***** though and has a boyfriend, so i'll giv this one a pass. The funny part is she asked me if i wanted to hook up even though she had a boyfriend
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That's a bright green flag with the words "GO AHEAD" emblazed on it!!!Jokerlsk said:
This mean that her boyfriend's not doing it for her anymore for whatever reason
(either he's becoming too needy, a wuss, pansy, or AFC or even all three!)
She's subconsciously screaming that she needs a new outlet for her pent-up sexual frustration and she thinks that you would be the best choice to satisfy her needs at the present moment
And although she may still go right back to her BOREfriend after the fling with you, you will still have a really good time with her(although for a very short time)
and you'll gain valuable sexual experience from your newly-acquired conquest
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I actually totally disagree.......Tekniq said:
There's no harm in doing it -----> no harm AT ALL