Hey guys, today at youth group we went bowling and ate at some restaurant. While we were there i decided to text on my friend's (she's a girl) phone. i started randomly texting one of her friends and she seemed pretty interested. She sent me photos of herself and we flirted. I would give her a hb6.5. The thing is this girl goes to a private school (the school the girl at my church goes) and i've never met her in person. I kinda wanna hookup with this girl; do you guys have any advice on how i could go about this??? BTW i don't have texting on my phone but i got her number and she told me to call her anytime.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
E-flirting with girls i don't know........
- Thread starter Jokerlsk
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
Call her, have a SHORT little conversation.....ask how she is, throw in some C&F, make her laugh a bit, and get the date. I'm sure you can take it from there 
Yeah, but i'm not so smooth on the phone. I'm better at texting too bad i don't have it anymore........ So you got any ideas on how i can get the convo started since i've never talked to her on the phone before? Do you guys have any jokes i could make to loosen her up?
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ARrocket
Master Don Juan
Her: Hello?
You: Hey, this is the man of your dreams calling.
Her: *Confusion*
You: Haha this is Jokerlsk, what's up? How have you been?
Her: Blah blah blah
You: Yeah, but I bet your life would be even more exciting if you could see me. I'm sure you agree
Her: Blah blah blah (hopefully a laugh)
You: Let's go (insert place here) on (insert day here)
Something like that. lol
You: Hey, this is the man of your dreams calling.
Her: *Confusion*
You: Haha this is Jokerlsk, what's up? How have you been?
Her: Blah blah blah
You: Yeah, but I bet your life would be even more exciting if you could see me. I'm sure you agree
Her: Blah blah blah (hopefully a laugh)
You: Let's go (insert place here) on (insert day here)
Something like that. lol
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Yeah, i know man. I don't even have texting on my phone, but since i've never met this chick before i can act/say whatever i want with no consequence. I heard she's a ***** though and has a boyfriend, so i'll giv this one a pass. The funny part is she asked me if i wanted to hook up even though she had a boyfriend
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That's a bright green flag with the words "GO AHEAD" emblazed on it!!!Jokerlsk said:
This mean that her boyfriend's not doing it for her anymore for whatever reason
(either he's becoming too needy, a wuss, pansy, or AFC or even all three!)
She's subconsciously screaming that she needs a new outlet for her pent-up sexual frustration and she thinks that you would be the best choice to satisfy her needs at the present moment
And although she may still go right back to her BOREfriend after the fling with you, you will still have a really good time with her(although for a very short time)
and you'll gain valuable sexual experience from your newly-acquired conquest
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I actually totally disagree.......Tekniq said:
There's no harm in doing it -----> no harm AT ALL