Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
you mean symmetry? how? try lifting weight with both sides of your body at the same time, that will help keep you symmetrical. it's not rocket science.zerocelcius said:I use it for def. I started off with Ten reps. Than moved up by ten. It helps to keep semitry.
hmmm... I found a post of yours from a year or so ago indicating just how skinny you are. You don't need isometrics. You need to eat. A lot. And lift heavy weights. See WBA's Idiot's Guide, and don't ask about worthless training methods again until you've put his advice into practice for 6 months or so.Freddy1 said:I dont know if anyone have heard about the old "Charles Atlas" body building method lessons. Does that stuff works? I was wondering if it could be used as a subsitute for traditional weights or maybe as an add on.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Thanks dude. Yeah I gotta eat like a horse.Throttle said:hmmm... I found a post of yours from a year or so ago indicating just how skinny you are. You don't need isometrics. You need to eat. A lot. And lift heavy weights. See WBA's Idiot's Guide, and don't ask about worthless training methods again until you've put his advice into practice for 6 months or so.
Throttle said:you mean symmetry? how? try lifting weight with both sides of your body at the same time, that will help keep you symmetrical. it's not rocket science.
I didn't. For all I know you have more experience lifting weights than I do. However I did talk to you as though you do not know how to spell, and as though you don't know anything about how to maintain symmetry. 2-handed lifts maintain as much symmetry as your genetics will allow. Isometrics give you (at best) a "pump" which has nothing to do with muscle mass.zerocelcius said:Don't talk to me like I don't know how to Lift F*&*&^ Weights!!
Yea I spelt SYMMETRY wrong, $hit happens. Look at my pic and tell me I don't know $hit about Symmetry.Throttle said:I didn't. For all I know you have more experience lifting weights than I do. However I did talk to you as though you do not know how to spell, and as though you don't know anything about how to maintain symmetry. 2-handed lifts maintain as much symmetry as your genetics will allow. Isometrics give you (at best) a "pump" which has nothing to do with muscle mass.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
according to your pic you know naff all about weight lifting but a thing or two about starving yourself.zerocelcius said:Yea I spelt SYMMETRY wrong, $hit happens. Look at my pic and tell me I don't know $hit about Symmetry.
Not really sure what you are saying " naff all " If that is nothing at all, than you are wrong!Warboss Alex said:according to your pic you know naff all about weight lifting but a thing or two about starving yourself.
you've got a good lean base to start with - listen to Throttle instead of being hostile and you'll learn how to put on some nice mass without losing too much of your 'def'.
I never said you didn't know what you were talking about, but Throttle came at me like that. Why you defended him I will never know he is the one talking like an a$$hole. I have done things that are difficult that you will never know about 'cause I don't brag or wine. Yea I never put on 40lbs of muscle but I did put on 20 over 4 years. I went from not being to walk from an accident to being able to full on sprint for 200Meters. You don't know what I have done.Warboss Alex said:Zero,
My comment was tongue-in-cheek, but since you got nasty, so will I.
Who gives a f-ck about your abs. The guy is asking how to gain muscle. You came on here asking how to 'bulk', now you're dishing out advice?
I've also been told I should strip. Who cares? I've also been told to go into competitive bodybuilding and powerlifting. Some people have asked me if I push trucks for a living. Others have asked me to be their personal trainer, offered me money for it. I didn't take it because it's not my career.
I do not like people who mouth off about having abs, so this applies to everyone: ANY FOOL CAN GET RIPPED. IT IS THE EASIEST THING IN THE WORLD. Get over your rippedness. ANYONE (and I mean anyone unless they're severely obese) can take 6-12 months and get down to the stripper level bodyfat.
You want to do something hard? Take that body you've got now, maintain the same level of conditioning (roughly) and add 40lbs of muscle to that frame. Then you'll be something I'll be impressed by - and you'll also realise how DIFFICULT it is to actually do that. You worked out from high school, you were in the army. Show me a guy who was obese and got down to 10% bodyfat and I'll be impressed. Show me a guy who went from 120 to 220 and kept his abs along the way, and I'll be impressed. Show me a guy who doubled his squat in a year and I'll be impressed.
I don't care that you've lost respect for me, quite frankly. You're another internet identity who can take my advice or leave it. But DON'T come on here being so full of yourself just because you got 9.7 on hot-or-not.. lol. I've seen the guys girls rate as 9's.. meh.
Am I calling you ugly? No. But you've not done anything DIFFICULT. You have a LOT to learn about muscle growth.. dieting? No, you know how to get conditioned. But putting some serious size on, is something you don't have a clue about.
We're all here to learn.. including myself.
Take a big, deep breath bro. I didn't come after anyone. Freddy asked for advice; I gave mine. You told me how I should / should not talk to you. I don't appreciate that, but you seem to need to vent, so go for it. You have some serious anger management issues to get this pissed off over an anonymous Internet message board.zerocelcius said:I never said you didn't know what you were talking about, but Throttle came at me like that.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
If that is how you meant it I read you wrong! Little guy complex I guess, spelling is a sore point.Throttle said:Take a big, deep breath bro. I didn't come after anyone. Freddy asked for advice; I gave mine. You told me how I should / should not talk to you. I don't appreciate that, but you seem to need to vent, so go for it. You have some serious anger management issues to get this pissed off over an anonymous Internet message board.
If you think WBA is "defending me" you haven't read this exchange very carefully. My words here need no defense; rather, WBA is pointing out that your aggressive self-promotion is out of line with your accomplishments. Fish through my posts over the last 2 months and you will notice that while I offer advice based on personal experience, but I don't brag about my accomplishments. That's not what I'm here for.
Now I've chastised you. I never chastised Freddy, and if I was perhaps a bit harsh, he thanked me for the advice. I think that speaks for itself.
Lastly, I never said anything about "moving air with weights" -- I told Freddy he should "move weight through space." If the distinction eludes you, I can't be bothered to explain it.
Dido!Warboss Alex said:Zero, we're all here to learn from each other and from experience.. I apologise for my outburst.
You want to bulk without losing definition? It's what I keep telling people to do. Massive food intake but also carb timing, cardio, high protein to keep metabolism high etc.. so your excesses are burned off while still getting in the right amount of nutrients to grow. Read the Idiot's Guide..