"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dying your beard/stubble

Jariel

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Has anyone got any experience or advice on dying your beard or stubble?

I've been told I look really good with a bit of a beard, but it's starting to get very grey now. I've been going grey since my early 20s and just started dying my hair. No problem. But can you dye a beard with normal hair dye or has anyone tried something more suitable?

Obviously I don't want to be buying a bottle of dye every week just for my beard, so ideally I'd want something I can get several uses out of.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Alle_Gory

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Is this genetic? Has this happened to other males in your family?
 

Nik TPT

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The only time I've seen that is on the ridiculous commercials. I'd leave the grey on just because it makes you look like you have "wisdom" lol.
 

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Very high maintainence. If you want a stubble....(3-5 day growth look), expect to be applying Just For Men every three days or so. If you don't keep up this schedule, the beard will have white roots and look really silly. It can work, but expect to devote a lot of time to it.
I'd rather just shave.......
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I always thought a bit of grey hair is attractive..?
 
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