"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dying your beard/stubble

Jariel

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Has anyone got any experience or advice on dying your beard or stubble?

I've been told I look really good with a bit of a beard, but it's starting to get very grey now. I've been going grey since my early 20s and just started dying my hair. No problem. But can you dye a beard with normal hair dye or has anyone tried something more suitable?

Obviously I don't want to be buying a bottle of dye every week just for my beard, so ideally I'd want something I can get several uses out of.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Alle_Gory

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Is this genetic? Has this happened to other males in your family?
 

Nik TPT

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The only time I've seen that is on the ridiculous commercials. I'd leave the grey on just because it makes you look like you have "wisdom" lol.
 

Rubirosa

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Very high maintainence. If you want a stubble....(3-5 day growth look), expect to be applying Just For Men every three days or so. If you don't keep up this schedule, the beard will have white roots and look really silly. It can work, but expect to devote a lot of time to it.
I'd rather just shave.......
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Huffman

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I always thought a bit of grey hair is attractive..?
 
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