"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dying my hair.

Colin O'Brien

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Second semester of my senior year in high school, I'm pretty bored so I think I'm gonna dye my hair blue. I did it a loong time ago and it looked way chill so it's not like its gonna affect my confidence level. Think this would freak any chicks out? My gut says they won't care as long as I keep my confidence up (which I will).
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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splinterkb

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It'll set you apart from everyone else.. and if you can pull it off and keep the same confidence level, then go for it.
 

LostAndConfused

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It could work, I've heard that colors such as green and blue are best when your eyes are that color, and if you have a darker skin tone then a bronze would work as well.

But to answer your question it won't really freak them out UNLESS you are:

*Antisocial
*Seen as "weird" beforehand, whether you are or not (girls are just like that).
*In a "weird" social circle.

Good luck!
 

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Thanks for the replies guys.

I'm neither antisocial, nor seen as weird, but I guess a few of my friends could be seen as weird (TV/Video nerd types, I love them anyway hahah). I get around though when it comes to friend groups. Whatever though, I'm gonna do it if I can afford the bleach next week. My eyes are green/brown but I definitely don't want green. Blue is choice.
 
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