"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Dying my hair.

Colin O'Brien

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Second semester of my senior year in high school, I'm pretty bored so I think I'm gonna dye my hair blue. I did it a loong time ago and it looked way chill so it's not like its gonna affect my confidence level. Think this would freak any chicks out? My gut says they won't care as long as I keep my confidence up (which I will).
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It'll set you apart from everyone else.. and if you can pull it off and keep the same confidence level, then go for it.
 

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It could work, I've heard that colors such as green and blue are best when your eyes are that color, and if you have a darker skin tone then a bronze would work as well.

But to answer your question it won't really freak them out UNLESS you are:

*Antisocial
*Seen as "weird" beforehand, whether you are or not (girls are just like that).
*In a "weird" social circle.

Good luck!
 

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Thanks for the replies guys.

I'm neither antisocial, nor seen as weird, but I guess a few of my friends could be seen as weird (TV/Video nerd types, I love them anyway hahah). I get around though when it comes to friend groups. Whatever though, I'm gonna do it if I can afford the bleach next week. My eyes are green/brown but I definitely don't want green. Blue is choice.
 
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