"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dying my hair.

Colin O'Brien

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Second semester of my senior year in high school, I'm pretty bored so I think I'm gonna dye my hair blue. I did it a loong time ago and it looked way chill so it's not like its gonna affect my confidence level. Think this would freak any chicks out? My gut says they won't care as long as I keep my confidence up (which I will).
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It'll set you apart from everyone else.. and if you can pull it off and keep the same confidence level, then go for it.
 

LostAndConfused

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It could work, I've heard that colors such as green and blue are best when your eyes are that color, and if you have a darker skin tone then a bronze would work as well.

But to answer your question it won't really freak them out UNLESS you are:

*Antisocial
*Seen as "weird" beforehand, whether you are or not (girls are just like that).
*In a "weird" social circle.

Good luck!
 

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Thanks for the replies guys.

I'm neither antisocial, nor seen as weird, but I guess a few of my friends could be seen as weird (TV/Video nerd types, I love them anyway hahah). I get around though when it comes to friend groups. Whatever though, I'm gonna do it if I can afford the bleach next week. My eyes are green/brown but I definitely don't want green. Blue is choice.
 
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