"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Duuuuudes....i have no game =/

hb

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Ever been told something so many times & on different occasions that it sinks in? I HAVE NO GAME! & after people get to know me ( bestfriend & potential girlfriend) I admit it! I have NO GAME. Im an attractive guy (i've been told) so my looks usual get the girl but I feel handicapped, I definitely don't lack personality but something a friend said last week really stuck.....

"you know what really sucks about being you, you take no initiative, you just ride other people's waves"

Now although I wouldn't say that this is 1000000% correct =/

It's true to a certain extent, if a friend brings along two chicks I have no problem co-mingling & entertaining the broads, but I can NEVER land on my own.......... WTF!

It's like I feel as if I need permission or acceptance... WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME?!

FIX ME
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Diaforetikos

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FIX YOU!?

Help your da.mn self.


You know your problem. Step up to it and man up about it.

If you know your not doing things for yourself, start doing things for yourself. Period.

Your a da.mn man. Remember that. You handle your own sh!t. Don't wait for others to do things first.


Your problem is that you like being "in" the crowd. Worried that if you stand out, you'll be looked upon as "different".

But different isn't bad. You just give it that label. Man up and be different. Who cares? Obviously, I don't gave a rats a**. Why should you?


If this isn't enough for you to start doin' your own sh!t, then you need to recheck your mindset. Your thinking may be out of wack. FIX IT! DJ Bible is there for a reason.
 
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hb said:
Ever been told something so many times & on different occasions that it sinks in? I HAVE NO GAME! & after people get to know me ( bestfriend & potential girlfriend) I admit it!

FIX ME
That's your answer right there...tell yourself you're hot ****. Then act accordinly, then it'll sink in.

Also, the FIX ME! thing, demanding your life handed to you on a silver platter....well that attitude won't garner solid advice from others.
 

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nothing wrong with you

choose a good product, study it and go out and apply it.
 
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