"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Duuuuudes....i have no game =/

hb

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Ever been told something so many times & on different occasions that it sinks in? I HAVE NO GAME! & after people get to know me ( bestfriend & potential girlfriend) I admit it! I have NO GAME. Im an attractive guy (i've been told) so my looks usual get the girl but I feel handicapped, I definitely don't lack personality but something a friend said last week really stuck.....

"you know what really sucks about being you, you take no initiative, you just ride other people's waves"

Now although I wouldn't say that this is 1000000% correct =/

It's true to a certain extent, if a friend brings along two chicks I have no problem co-mingling & entertaining the broads, but I can NEVER land on my own.......... WTF!

It's like I feel as if I need permission or acceptance... WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME?!

FIX ME
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Diaforetikos

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FIX YOU!?

Help your da.mn self.


You know your problem. Step up to it and man up about it.

If you know your not doing things for yourself, start doing things for yourself. Period.

Your a da.mn man. Remember that. You handle your own sh!t. Don't wait for others to do things first.


Your problem is that you like being "in" the crowd. Worried that if you stand out, you'll be looked upon as "different".

But different isn't bad. You just give it that label. Man up and be different. Who cares? Obviously, I don't gave a rats a**. Why should you?


If this isn't enough for you to start doin' your own sh!t, then you need to recheck your mindset. Your thinking may be out of wack. FIX IT! DJ Bible is there for a reason.
 
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hb said:
Ever been told something so many times & on different occasions that it sinks in? I HAVE NO GAME! & after people get to know me ( bestfriend & potential girlfriend) I admit it!

FIX ME
That's your answer right there...tell yourself you're hot ****. Then act accordinly, then it'll sink in.

Also, the FIX ME! thing, demanding your life handed to you on a silver platter....well that attitude won't garner solid advice from others.
 

stayfly

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nothing wrong with you

choose a good product, study it and go out and apply it.
 
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