"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Duuuuudes....i have no game =/

hb

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Ever been told something so many times & on different occasions that it sinks in? I HAVE NO GAME! & after people get to know me ( bestfriend & potential girlfriend) I admit it! I have NO GAME. Im an attractive guy (i've been told) so my looks usual get the girl but I feel handicapped, I definitely don't lack personality but something a friend said last week really stuck.....

"you know what really sucks about being you, you take no initiative, you just ride other people's waves"

Now although I wouldn't say that this is 1000000% correct =/

It's true to a certain extent, if a friend brings along two chicks I have no problem co-mingling & entertaining the broads, but I can NEVER land on my own.......... WTF!

It's like I feel as if I need permission or acceptance... WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME?!

FIX ME
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Diaforetikos

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FIX YOU!?

Help your da.mn self.


You know your problem. Step up to it and man up about it.

If you know your not doing things for yourself, start doing things for yourself. Period.

Your a da.mn man. Remember that. You handle your own sh!t. Don't wait for others to do things first.


Your problem is that you like being "in" the crowd. Worried that if you stand out, you'll be looked upon as "different".

But different isn't bad. You just give it that label. Man up and be different. Who cares? Obviously, I don't gave a rats a**. Why should you?


If this isn't enough for you to start doin' your own sh!t, then you need to recheck your mindset. Your thinking may be out of wack. FIX IT! DJ Bible is there for a reason.
 
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hb said:
Ever been told something so many times & on different occasions that it sinks in? I HAVE NO GAME! & after people get to know me ( bestfriend & potential girlfriend) I admit it!

FIX ME
That's your answer right there...tell yourself you're hot ****. Then act accordinly, then it'll sink in.

Also, the FIX ME! thing, demanding your life handed to you on a silver platter....well that attitude won't garner solid advice from others.
 

stayfly

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nothing wrong with you

choose a good product, study it and go out and apply it.
 
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