Many men make the mistake to believe they are all that without understanding one fact: women tend to be very quite when it comes to men’s bad performances or when men do things that women don’t truly like. They do that because they understand men’s pride.
I will tell you one thing based on the numerous women I have talked with (friends) or listened talking to my ex- or current girlfriend (their friends), or even listening to my ex- or current girlfriend talk about what their friends have said: most men suck in bed. Most men fail miserably when it comes to satisfying their partner. And many women either keep it to themselves or fake satisfaction because they either “like him”, “wants to give him a chance”, or “don’t want to hurt his feelings”.
I personally ask all my partners (if I’m with them more than once) that if I do something that creates discomfort or takes her rhythm away…to simply tell me. Otherwise, I would assume that what I’m doing is something that she likes.
I will tell you more…something that works with one woman might not work with another. So, a great lover must be like an explorer. He has to explore that body and learn and understand that body. I will tell you one thing: it takes more than one encounter to get it 100% right.
That’s why the likelihood of a man that is in successful long term relationships of being a greater lover than a man that has gone in 30 or 40 one-night-stands are very high. The reason is…because that man that has been with several long term relationship understand the “exploration method”, while the man that has being in a bunch of one-night-stands cannot possibly comprehend that.
Sadly, some of the greatest lovers tend to be men that were married and also cheated.
I will tell you one thing based on the numerous women I have talked with (friends) or listened talking to my ex- or current girlfriend (their friends), or even listening to my ex- or current girlfriend talk about what their friends have said: most men suck in bed. Most men fail miserably when it comes to satisfying their partner. And many women either keep it to themselves or fake satisfaction because they either “like him”, “wants to give him a chance”, or “don’t want to hurt his feelings”.
I personally ask all my partners (if I’m with them more than once) that if I do something that creates discomfort or takes her rhythm away…to simply tell me. Otherwise, I would assume that what I’m doing is something that she likes.
I will tell you more…something that works with one woman might not work with another. So, a great lover must be like an explorer. He has to explore that body and learn and understand that body. I will tell you one thing: it takes more than one encounter to get it 100% right.
That’s why the likelihood of a man that is in successful long term relationships of being a greater lover than a man that has gone in 30 or 40 one-night-stands are very high. The reason is…because that man that has been with several long term relationship understand the “exploration method”, while the man that has being in a bunch of one-night-stands cannot possibly comprehend that.
Sadly, some of the greatest lovers tend to be men that were married and also cheated.
