Today I went down to Kids Zone to submit my application. Basically, it's some center that just opened where they have obstacles and crap and taking care of kids. Well, one of the workers there I saw was HB 9 and she looked around my age, I submitted my application to the supervisor and I just wanted to talk to that HB 9 so bad but I dunno, the supervisor was right there and then she just said she was going to review my application and she would call me. What could I have done? I really hope I get this job so I can get to know this other woman, I think deep down shee must think I'm alright because I caught a few eye contacts with her. All the employees there are women and if I do get hired, I'll be the only guy... I just hope they don't think I'm gay.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Dunno how I should've done this..
- Thread starter unistork
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
johnny_chase
Don Juan
lmao, lol. You dont need a job to have permission to talk to someone. God darnit, just talk to them, who gives a shyte if the supervisor is there, you dont need an excuse, your excuse is that you're male, and you wish to copulate with fine females
Scoiland
Senior Don Juan
We've all chickened out on talkin to a HB8/9 !! Believe it or not, everyone on this FORUM has a memory that they will NEVER forget about a time when they had an opportunity to talk to a HB8/9/10 and chickened out!!
Do it with me !!
Look back and smile!!
That was the old YOU/ME!!
Now look at the next hot chick you see, and NO MATTER WHAT !!! Look her in the eye, say hi to her...
she may look at you funny.. she may say hi back... she may ignore you...
BUT NO MATTER WHAT!!! you will feel exhilirated!!!
You will feel empowered!!!!
You will feel that, all that power that women have over men, is, within grasp of yourself.
That you will possess it.
That you will be able to have it over women.
Start the DJ bootcamp if you havent already!
It's availible here for free.
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
Andromax
Do it with me !!
Look back and smile!!
That was the old YOU/ME!!
Now look at the next hot chick you see, and NO MATTER WHAT !!! Look her in the eye, say hi to her...
she may look at you funny.. she may say hi back... she may ignore you...
BUT NO MATTER WHAT!!! you will feel exhilirated!!!
You will feel empowered!!!!
You will feel that, all that power that women have over men, is, within grasp of yourself.
That you will possess it.
That you will be able to have it over women.
Start the DJ bootcamp if you havent already!
It's availible here for free.
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
Andromax
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.