Dumping

[Byezbozhniy]

I see so many posts about attracting women's attention but soooo few on getting rid of them.

I'm with an older woman at the moment (I'm 25, she's 39) and I'm being a pvssy over getting rid of her. She costs me a lot of money and has turned into a bit of a nag.

She demands attention and is jealous. I think she's probably desperate, has baggage and is going through a rough time.

I know the replies that will follow, and I know I need to be a man and face up, but I'm a people pleaser and am finding it difficult to look her in the eye and tell her to "fvck off."

It's a pretty major scalp for me though. She's a public figure and pretty well sought after ... but alas, still a woman, and thus liable to act in the same petty, jealous, moronic and needy way that they all do.

Anyone have any stories of crushing people's hearts that might make me feel better??

 

[DJCT]

You're not responsible for her feelings. Anyways, why would you be telling her to fvck off? Just tell her, as one adult to another, that it's not working out.

 

[Warrior74]

You can be a stand up guy and tell her its not working for you and you just want to be friends. hehehe.

or you can just withdraw your time and attention....stop calling, stop showing up...tell her your busy and blow her off till she gets the message.

I've done both. It depends on the girl really. Some girls, (freaks and hos) the stand up **** don't work with them as well. But if shes an intelligent respectable woman...being straight up should be good.

 

[n00bPimp]

I know the replies that will follow, and I know I need to be a man and face up, but I'm a people pleaser and am finding it difficult to look her in the eye and tell her to "fvck off."

Well then there's no helping you man.
Ask yourself, whats it gonna be are you gonna be a man and dump her or are you going to be a sensitive c*nt and stick by her until she leaves?
Face it man, only way to dump someone is by dumping them. Or if you wanna do it the hard way, You can move far away, leave your friends and family, and rearrange your whole life.

 

[Byezbozhniy]

Done.

 

[Jokerlsk]

Details??????