"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Byezbozhniy

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I see so many posts about attracting women's attention but soooo few on getting rid of them.

I'm with an older woman at the moment (I'm 25, she's 39) and I'm being a pvssy over getting rid of her. She costs me a lot of money and has turned into a bit of a nag.

She demands attention and is jealous. I think she's probably desperate, has baggage and is going through a rough time.

I know the replies that will follow, and I know I need to be a man and face up, but I'm a people pleaser and am finding it difficult to look her in the eye and tell her to "fvck off."

It's a pretty major scalp for me though. She's a public figure and pretty well sought after ... but alas, still a woman, and thus liable to act in the same petty, jealous, moronic and needy way that they all do.

Anyone have any stories of crushing people's hearts that might make me feel better?? :D
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DJCT

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You're not responsible for her feelings. Anyways, why would you be telling her to fvck off? Just tell her, as one adult to another, that it's not working out.
 

Warrior74

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You can be a stand up guy and tell her its not working for you and you just want to be friends. hehehe.

or you can just withdraw your time and attention....stop calling, stop showing up...tell her your busy and blow her off till she gets the message.

I've done both. It depends on the girl really. Some girls, (freaks and hos) the stand up **** don't work with them as well. But if shes an intelligent respectable woman...being straight up should be good.
 

n00bPimp

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I know the replies that will follow, and I know I need to be a man and face up, but I'm a people pleaser and am finding it difficult to look her in the eye and tell her to "fvck off."
Well then there's no helping you man.
Ask yourself, whats it gonna be are you gonna be a man and dump her or are you going to be a sensitive c*nt and stick by her until she leaves?
Face it man, only way to dump someone is by dumping them. Or if you wanna do it the hard way, You can move far away, leave your friends and family, and rearrange your whole life.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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