"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Byezbozhniy

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I see so many posts about attracting women's attention but soooo few on getting rid of them.

I'm with an older woman at the moment (I'm 25, she's 39) and I'm being a pvssy over getting rid of her. She costs me a lot of money and has turned into a bit of a nag.

She demands attention and is jealous. I think she's probably desperate, has baggage and is going through a rough time.

I know the replies that will follow, and I know I need to be a man and face up, but I'm a people pleaser and am finding it difficult to look her in the eye and tell her to "fvck off."

It's a pretty major scalp for me though. She's a public figure and pretty well sought after ... but alas, still a woman, and thus liable to act in the same petty, jealous, moronic and needy way that they all do.

Anyone have any stories of crushing people's hearts that might make me feel better?? :D
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You're not responsible for her feelings. Anyways, why would you be telling her to fvck off? Just tell her, as one adult to another, that it's not working out.
 
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You can be a stand up guy and tell her its not working for you and you just want to be friends. hehehe.

or you can just withdraw your time and attention....stop calling, stop showing up...tell her your busy and blow her off till she gets the message.

I've done both. It depends on the girl really. Some girls, (freaks and hos) the stand up **** don't work with them as well. But if shes an intelligent respectable woman...being straight up should be good.
 
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I know the replies that will follow, and I know I need to be a man and face up, but I'm a people pleaser and am finding it difficult to look her in the eye and tell her to "fvck off."
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Well then there's no helping you man.
Ask yourself, whats it gonna be are you gonna be a man and dump her or are you going to be a sensitive c*nt and stick by her until she leaves?
Face it man, only way to dump someone is by dumping them. Or if you wanna do it the hard way, You can move far away, leave your friends and family, and rearrange your whole life.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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